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Terms of Use

Last updated 2026-05-19.

Adults only

Polari is for adults aged 18 or older (or the age of majority where you live, whichever is greater). By using Polari you confirm that you meet that threshold, that you will not allow minors to access the site through your account or device, that sexually explicit material does not offend you, and that accessing adult content is legal in your jurisdiction.

What Polari is

Polari provides conversations with fictional AI characters. They are not real people and not licensed professionals. Nothing a persona says is medical, legal, financial, or mental-health advice. Polari is not a crisis service. See support resources.

Adult content

Some personas can have sexually explicit conversations. By signing up you confirm you are an adult and that this is welcome; explicit conversations are enabled by default and you can turn them off at any time in Settings. AI-generated photos personas send are safe-for-work; Polari does not generate or send sexually explicit imagery. Where local law requires identity-based age verification before adult content, explicit replies are automatically forced off for requests originating from those jurisdictions until we offer that verification.

No real-person likeness

Personas and every visual depiction on Polari are AI-generated from fictional descriptions and prompts. No real person is used as a model, reference, training subject, or basis for any persona. Any resemblance any persona, portrait, or generated photo may bear to a real living or deceased person, including in face, body, name, voice, mannerisms, or biography, is unintentional and purely coincidental. No real person endorses, sponsors, or is otherwise associated with any persona. If you believe a depiction or output identifies you or someone you know, email support@polari.men and we will review and, where appropriate, remove the content and tune our generators to avoid recurrence.

Acceptable use

Don't use Polari to:

Inputs and image requests are moderated; content sexualizing minors is hard-blocked at multiple layers with zero tolerance. Any apparent child sexual abuse material is reported to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) CyberTipline as required by 18 U.S.C. § 2258A. Other abuse results in suspension or termination of the account and may be reported to authorities.

Account and security

One account per person. You are responsible for keeping your credentials safe, for every action taken under your account, and for the security of the device you use to access Polari. Email support@polari.men immediately if you suspect unauthorized access.

Subscriptions, billing & refunds

Premium subscriptions are billed by CCBill and renew automatically until canceled. Statement descriptor, cancellation, refund process, and chargeback policy are on the Billing & cancellation page.

Intellectual property

Polari and everything that makes up the service, including the persona designs, system prompts, software, and look and feel, belong to Polari and our licensors. We grant you a personal, non-transferable, non-exclusive, revocable license to access the service for your own non-commercial use. All other rights are reserved.

Generated outputs

You may view, save, and share outputs Polari generates for you (text and images) for your own non-commercial use. You may not resell them, train another AI on them, present them as depictions of any real person, or use them to defame, harass, or invade the privacy of any real person. Polari may keep generated images in a shared cache so other users requesting the same fictional scene reuse them; the cache is keyed by persona and scene and does not contain personal information.

Your content

You retain the rights you already have in the messages you send. You grant Polari a worldwide, royalty-free license to store, process, transmit, and analyze them to operate the service (including persona memory and safety review) and to comply with law. We do not sell your messages and do not use them to train our own models.

Third-party services

Polari uses Cloudflare for hosting and edge infrastructure, OpenRouter and underlying model providers to generate text replies, OpenAI's moderation endpoint to screen inputs, Google (Gemini) for image generation, Resend for email delivery, and CCBill for payment processing. Their terms and privacy practices govern how they handle the data they receive. See Privacy for the full list.

Reports and takedowns

For copyright takedowns under the DMCA, see our DMCA & copyright page, which lists the designated agent and the required notice and counter-notice procedures.

To report content you believe is unlawful, depicts or identifies a real person, or otherwise violates these terms, email support@polari.men with the URL or message identifier, a description, and your contact info. See also our synthetic content notice for our position on § 2257.

Availability and disclaimers

Polari is offered AS IS and AS AVAILABLE, without warranties of any kind, express or implied, including merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, accuracy, or non-infringement. Persona outputs are generated by language and image models and may be incorrect, offensive, or contradictory; you use them at your own risk. Features may change or break, and we may suspend the service.

Limitation of liability

To the maximum extent permitted by law, Polari and our suppliers will not be liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential, exemplary, or punitive damages, or for lost profits, lost data, or business interruption, even if we have been advised of the possibility. Our aggregate liability for any claim arising out of or relating to Polari is limited to the greater of the amount you paid us in the twelve months before the claim or US$50.

Indemnification

You will defend, indemnify, and hold harmless Polari and our suppliers from any third-party claim, loss, or expense (including reasonable attorneys' fees) arising out of your inputs, your outputs, or your breach of these terms. Your total liability for indemnification under this section is capped at the greater of (a) the amount you paid Polari in the twelve months before the claim or (b) US$100. This cap does not apply to claims arising from your willful misconduct, fraud, or violations of the Acceptable Use section involving content sexualizing minors or depicting real people without consent.

Changes to these terms

We may update these terms as the service evolves. The “Last updated” date above reflects the latest revision. Material changes will be announced in-app or by email. Continued use after a change means you accept the updated terms.

Arbitration agreement and class-action waiver

Please read this section carefully. It affects how disputes between you and Polari are resolved. You may opt out within 30 days of first accepting these terms; see “Opting out” below.

Informal resolution first. Before either party may start arbitration, you and Polari agree to first try to resolve the dispute informally. Email support@polari.men with the subject line “Informal Dispute Notice” and include a description of the claim, the relief sought, and your contact information. The parties will negotiate in good faith for at least 60 days from the date Polari receives the notice before either side may initiate arbitration. Statutes of limitation are tolled during this period.

Binding individual arbitration. If informal resolution fails, you and Polari agree that any dispute, claim, or controversy arising out of or relating to these terms, the service, your account, your content, or your interactions with personas, including any claim that the service is unlawful, will be resolved exclusively by binding individual arbitration, except for the carve-outs listed below. Arbitration will be administered by the American Arbitration Association (AAA) under its Consumer Arbitration Rules in effect at the time arbitration is commenced. If AAA is unwilling or unable to administer the arbitration consistent with these terms, the parties will instead use JAMS under its Streamlined Arbitration Rules and Procedures. The seat of arbitration is King County, Washington; hearings may be conducted by video or phone unless the arbitrator determines an in-person hearing is required.

The arbitrator, not any federal, state, or local court or agency, has exclusive authority to resolve any dispute relating to the interpretation, applicability, enforceability, or formation of this arbitration agreement, including any claim that all or part of this arbitration agreement is void or voidable. The Federal Arbitration Act (9 U.S.C. § 1 et seq.) governs the interpretation and enforcement of this section.

Class-action and class-arbitration waiver. You and Polari agree that disputes will be resolved only on an individual basis. Neither you nor Polari may bring a claim as a plaintiff or class member in a class, consolidated, mass, or representative action, and the arbitrator may not consolidate more than one person's claims or preside over any form of class or representative proceeding. If this waiver is found unenforceable as to a particular claim or remedy, that claim or remedy will proceed in court under the Governing Law section below, and the remainder of this arbitration agreement (including this waiver as to all other claims and remedies) remains in force.

Mass-filing protocol. If 25 or more substantially similar claims are filed against Polari by or with the assistance of the same counsel or coordinated group within a 60-day window, those claims will proceed in a bellwether process: claimants' counsel selects 10 claims and Polari selects 10 claims to proceed first; the remaining claims are stayed (with statutes of limitation tolled) until the bellwether arbitrations conclude. After the bellwether round, the parties will mediate the remaining claims for at least 60 days before any further arbitration filings.

Jury trial waiver. You and Polari each waive the right to a trial by jury for any claim subject to arbitration.

Carve-outs. The following are not subject to arbitration: (a) claims that qualify for small claims court in the small claims court of either party's county of residence; (b) claims for injunctive or other equitable relief to stop unauthorized access to or use of the service, infringement of intellectual property rights, or violation of the Acceptable Use section of these terms; and (c) to the extent applicable, claims for public injunctive relief under California law (per California Civil Code § 3369 and McGill v. Citibank, N.A.), which may be brought in court if a court of competent jurisdiction determines California law applies and entitles you to such relief on a non-individual basis.

Opting out. You may opt out of this arbitration agreement by emailing support@polari.men within 30 days of the date you first accept these terms, with the subject line “Arbitration Opt-Out” and your account email in the body. A timely, valid email is the only way to opt out. Opting out does not affect any other provision of these terms. If you opt out, disputes are resolved under the Governing Law section below.

Severability and survival. If any portion of this arbitration agreement is found unenforceable, that portion is severed and the remainder remains in force, subject to the class-action-waiver paragraph above. This arbitration agreement survives termination of these terms and your account.

Governing law and disputes

These terms are governed by the laws of the State of Washington, United States, without regard to conflict-of-laws rules. For any dispute not subject to the arbitration agreement above (whether by carve-out, valid opt-out, or unenforceability), you and Polari each consent to the exclusive jurisdiction of the state and federal courts located in King County, Washington.

Termination

You can delete your account anytime from Settings; this removes your messages, memories, embeddings, and account record. We may suspend or terminate accounts that violate these terms.

Contact and notice address

Polari is operated by [LEGAL ENTITY NAME], a [STATE] [ENTITY TYPE]. Legal notices to the operator should be sent to [STREET ADDRESS, CITY, STATE ZIP], United States, with a copy to support@polari.men. General support: support@polari.men. Billing: billing@polari.men. Copyright (DMCA): see DMCA & copyright. 24/7 by email, replies within 24 hours.